Tuesday, February 24, 2015
Hello One & All,
I've just come through the Best weekend ever :) There has been some major ups/downs in my life and now the Karma swing appears to be on the UP Side.
For several Years now I've been friends with a wonderful man who owns our Favourite dating site. I've pitched in for yrs over at the site. My friends work there and I have some wonderful friends among the millions of members. (both past and present.) Several years back my friend the Founder of the site and I sat down and discussed the future of the site. How to bring about change that will help members and employees alike. I have lost count of the time I devoted to the site..and friends of mine who have worked so hard to help members with time and advice. We did it because we cared and not because we hoped to gain something for ourselves but to try and create a happy, fun filled environment at the site where all members can enjoy themselves and have such a good time they'll keep coming back and convince their friends to join too.
Fast forward past the darkness of the Prince Not So Charming Scandal..and to the past week..I received a message from a gentleman in recruiting about considering a job with the site. For all these yrs I have said I am The Founders Intern/Cheerleader and happy to remain so. I did not need to be paid. I do not work for money. I am lucky in that respect. I followed up with a phone call and had the BEST interview I've ever had.
I really enjoyed it and the challenge. I had not asked for this job..I was asked if I wanted to consider it and become a part of this great website's team. I am so flattered and honoured. He told me how great I did at the interview and he seemed very impressed with me and my honesty. My name is moving forward in the interview process. I have owned my own businesses, worked for a bank and grocery/dept stores . At this point in my life I can afford to concentrate on my writing. I am blessed to have thousands of fans of my erotica.
That same night a friend of mine suggested I consider becoming a BeachBody fitness coach. I work out 4 times a day every day..I try to motivate my friends and people I meet so they can have and share positive healthy feelings with others. I love to see people smile/feel good and try to help folks feel better about themselves. I truly believe in helping others as I've been blessed. I act, I write, I volunteer. Paying it Forward is the code I live by. I truly think Karma turned around and swung in my direction for good.
Thank you to everyone for believing in me and my talent. (whichever talent of mine you like, many thanks.) Thank you for not giving up even when I almost did. Thank you to my thousands of fans,followers and friends. If the job does not pan out..well that is OK too. I will always be The Founders # 1 Intern/Cheerleader and #1 Fan of our site/employees. The honour of being asked to consider this position is one of the greatest things that ever happened to me. I will always be grateful and forever & always happy.
I owe you more then I can say. Thank you Karma.
Saturday, February 14, 2015
Happy Valentine's Day ,
I saw that image on my boards and had to share it here. I do OWN everything that happened to me. I accept my guilt and responsibility for my own mistakes. My biggest mistake of course, being the Prince Not So Charming one. My sister and I were discussing the mess and she wondered how it had all begun. Thanks to Kim K dating Halle Berry's baby Daddy...and a female stalker who used to be a close/good friend..if not for them, this might not have happened at all. Sooo I guess I owe Kim K and Melo-Phon a Huge Thank you for leading me down this path.
It all started In Jan-Feb 2011...You can throw in Zumba workouts and his hatred for anything and everyone connected to it,identity theft, lies,fraud,theft, abuse, stalking, money problems, adultery,Bad credit, toenail fungus, STD testing which he refuses to do, Tarot readings he had me do on Miss C (the woman he is in lust/love with and had been trying to leave his "wife" for the past 9 yrs to be with.The same woman who dislikes him intensely and has never had any feelings other then repulsion for him ).. and the so called "wifey" Irma-Ali ..adultery with male and female lovers, Police detectives, libel and slander..Truly does seems like a some kind of telenovela indeed. Throw in the Parents who told him that "wifey did not love him but was only with him for their money so she could purchase a home." How in Hell did I end up in this giant mess ? I trusted a friend who I thought would never lie. I pleaded with him to go to counseling to figure out why his "wifey" was refusing to have sex with him in the way he wanted ( oral, anal, Breast play and three way ) but kept dating men/women behind his back. I suggested an open marriage might be the best for them.. I asked friends of mine who are lawyers to lend him a hand as he keeps taking the Bar Exam but can't pass it on his own ..yet he keeps telling co workers that the only reason "wifey" passed the Bar is because he either A) put on drag and took the test for her or B) taught her all she knows and that his hard work made it possible for her to finally pass. I begged him to try and make an effort with "wifey's" son from a former relationship..To try and care about this young man..Nope He HATES the poor kid. I tried everything a friend would do to help the man who called me his "Best/Great Friend " and nothing worked. Lesson Learned my friends..He seemed to be to good to be true or real..and he wasn't. Not by a long shot. You can only help those that really want to be helped. You can only be friends with people who tell the truth and really want to be your friend and not use you for what you can do for him or them.
Stay tuned or Tooned..there is more to come..Oh so much more..
Happy Valentine's Day,
PS: Editing to add this funny jpeg which found its way to my Facebook page..This sums it all up I think...My nightmare began Feb 2011 and finally ended Nov 2014..I am one of the Lucky ones..I survived him & his lies.